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Today I'm going tell an incident about me. I am a strong girl. I belong from a middle-class family. I am a very free-minded person. Actually, I am a girl with boy personality. I look beautiful in Indian wear but It is difficult to handle such heavy dresses and dupatta. I like to wear jeans and t-shirts. It is very comfortable for me. Even my familiar doesn't like it. In my life, I met a lot of boys but the sad thing is every boy wants me to wear Indian wear because it suits me. Every boy wants me to change. I still listening that " please don't wear such cheap dresses, you look beautiful in salwar kameez. Don't walk like boys. Don't talk like boys." No one thinks about what I want. Just they told me what they want. I started wearing salwar kameez, then my friend said: "Pooja, you don't like to wear dresses with dupatta because you cannot handle it."
I said: "Yes, but I don't have an option because everyone in my life is asking me to wear such dresses." He said: "If you don't like then don't wear. It is so simple. Be beautiful in your way. Don't do what others want. Do what you want. Wear what you want. Because people will change their choice instantly. So you have to change your dress code again." I wondered. :) Because he was the first person or boy said me that wear what you want. That was precious for me. And I decided to live life in my way and my choices. I think every woman should not allow men to choose her clothes. And forced to look according to their demand. If they are not liking you as you are, that means they will not like you after you changed yourself on their demand.
I respect those people who appreciate me for looking nice in Indian wear. But Now, I won't allow forcing any men in my life to change myself. I am beautiful in my way. Looking beauty does not mean having fair skin, with a lot of makeup containing eyeliner, mascara and wearing high heels. Beautiful has a different meaning for every girl. So Men should not rate them.
Today I'm going tell an incident about me. I am a strong girl. I belong from a middle-class family. I am a very free-minded person. Actually, I am a girl with boy personality. I look beautiful in Indian wear but It is difficult to handle such heavy dresses and dupatta. I like to wear jeans and t-shirts. It is very comfortable for me. Even my familiar doesn't like it. In my life, I met a lot of boys but the sad thing is every boy wants me to wear Indian wear because it suits me. Every boy wants me to change. I still listening that " please don't wear such cheap dresses, you look beautiful in salwar kameez. Don't walk like boys. Don't talk like boys." No one thinks about what I want. Just they told me what they want. I started wearing salwar kameez, then my friend said: "Pooja, you don't like to wear dresses with dupatta because you cannot handle it."
I said: "Yes, but I don't have an option because everyone in my life is asking me to wear such dresses." He said: "If you don't like then don't wear. It is so simple. Be beautiful in your way. Don't do what others want. Do what you want. Wear what you want. Because people will change their choice instantly. So you have to change your dress code again." I wondered. :) Because he was the first person or boy said me that wear what you want. That was precious for me. And I decided to live life in my way and my choices. I think every woman should not allow men to choose her clothes. And forced to look according to their demand. If they are not liking you as you are, that means they will not like you after you changed yourself on their demand.
I respect those people who appreciate me for looking nice in Indian wear. But Now, I won't allow forcing any men in my life to change myself. I am beautiful in my way. Looking beauty does not mean having fair skin, with a lot of makeup containing eyeliner, mascara and wearing high heels. Beautiful has a different meaning for every girl. So Men should not rate them.
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