Saturday, 28 October 2017

Joint Family

Are joint families disappearing?

What gives nuclear family?

In India, families were joint. In a joint family, the family members could be 20 to 30.  My mom was telling me that when she was a kid, that time her family was joint. There were 30 to 40 members in the family. Everyone from the family was working in farm except one person. That one person had to stay at home to take care of kids and house. She said the family is responsible for stopping my education. The School was too away from the house. So both sisters used to go together. Her cousin got failed and familiar decided to stop both's education. But my mom wanted to go school and she was a bright student.  Unfortunately, she cannot complete her schooling. I think there must be a lot of reason like this to being a nuclear family. So after some decades, it's difficult to find joint families. If they maintain or did not do such small mistakes and keep everyone happy then still we can see joint families in India. 
Now there are a lot of problems in the nuclear family. No one is at home to take care of kids. So parents are keeping their kids in babysitting and nursery. Recently We have seen the news that caretaker hit the baby. It was inhumanity. So again the question arises who will stay at home for kids. Becuase in this generation both husband and wife want to a done job. If a kid is in teenage, he or she cannot discuss her or his problems with their parents. Becuase they are busy in their office. So they might take a wrong way with a wrong suggestion which may get them from any person. Teenagers getting addicted to Blue Whale game and Internet. And committing suicide. Is it happen due to nuclear family? Who is responsible for this? Now Joint family is a need or not?

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